Trying to get it right is not a path of authenticity or realness...
It is from our mistakes that we find the wholeness of our human selves and our natural humility. Our wholeness is in accepting and loving All of Ourselves.
Our openness to learning from the experience of being wrong holds the potential for humility, depth and growth... it is where we gain our wisdom. Ultimately, it is our duty to surrender to our integrity, our truth and what is Real.
Consider what we tend to think of as our flaws, the parts that we see as ugly or wrong... actually being the meat of our healing, transformation and evolution.
Embrace the possibility, it is also time to consider waking up from all the numbing, distracting, avoiding, shopping, go-go-go addicted society we have participated in creating.
Time for wholeness, what is aligned, true and empowering for our Souls. Time for choosing and living in healthy ways of being, which serve us all. We can respectfully agree to disagree, this is good for self and others. Common sense, is a must and it is very good for all. Holding context, another tool that is good for all. Being truthful for the sake of integrity and honesty is good for all!
What if our working to nail things and trying to be perfect takes us deeper into an illusion? What if this is a false belief system of limitation, set by standards outside of our authentic selves and potentially not aligned with our Souls or our mission? What if, perfectionism and nailing everything is just one of our contrast lessons?
What if using standards and beliefs outside of our values and alignment of our authentic selves puts us on a treadmill for a goal we cannot reach? And our choice to stay on this treadmill keeps us from our deeper lessons, away from what we are here to learn and offer the world?
I believe our Higher Selves have no wish to avoid mistakes. We are here to experience and learn from our faults and failures. This does not mean being haphazard, sloppy, careless, reckless, irresponsible or lazy… who cares if we make mistakes, NO!
Embrace the possibility... I am correct, would that make an impact on how you choose to go forward in your life? What I have witnessed through my life and my work when people are looping in ego trying to avoid mistakes, as well as trying to avoid owning their mistakes takes them into some level of distortion and even delusion. Choosing to live like this keeps people from the depth of their own knowing and their wholeness and out of touch with Reality. We must walk in our own integrity, honor, respect and holding Sacred regard. We must show up and offer 110% of ourselves each moment. Owning the awareness that our 110% offering is fluid… just as life is… that is how life works. We also need to hold the knowing that all we can ultimately offer is our present moment best.
Our lives are ultimately... our Divine lessons that become our Sacred wisdom, making us more grounded and whole human beings, enabling us to offer the richness and fullness of our gifts to the world. From this aligned place we will be able to truly love our humanity and evolve.